They will grow up with memories of him, photographs of him, stories told by family members, and a public record of his life.
But there will also be countless moments when they are reminded that he is not there.
Birthdays.
School events.
Holidays.
Family celebrations.
Important achievements.
Ordinary evenings.
For a child, grief can be difficult to understand because it does not always follow a predictable pattern.
One day may seem normal.
Another may bring a sudden question.
Why isn’t Dad here?
Why can’t we call him?
Why did this happen?
These are questions no parent wants a child to have to ask.
And Erika has had to navigate that reality while dealing with her own loss.
## The Investigation Has Been Closely Watched
From the beginning, the investigation attracted enormous attention.
The FBI released photographs and video in its effort to identify the person responsible. Investigators described evidence found at the scene and appealed to members of the public for information.
The investigation eventually led authorities to Robinson, who is now facing the criminal case.
Prosecutors have presented evidence they say connects him to the shooting.
The defense has challenged aspects of the prosecution’s case and pleaded not guilty.
That distinction is important.
A defendant’s accusation is not a conviction.
The court process exists to determine whether the evidence meets the legal standard required for a conviction.
And until that process is complete, the accused remains entitled to the presumption of innocence.
## Why Erika Has Called for Transparency
The case has also become surrounded by speculation and conspiracy theories.
That environment has created another difficult problem for the Kirk family.
Erika has argued for greater transparency concerning evidence presented during the proceedings, saying that secrecy can contribute to conspiracy theories and public doubt.
In July 2026, the Kirk family sought greater public access to evidence being presented during the preliminary hearing.
Her position reflects a difficult reality.
When people do not have information, they often fill the gaps themselves.
Rumors can spread.